1. When you go on a holiday, do you
   Usually make friends easily?
   Prefer to spend time alone, or with the person accompanying you?
   Have the wish to make friends but find it difficult?

2. You have made an arrangement to meet a friend but you are very tired. When you try to call and explain, there is no reply. Would you
   Not turn up hoping that he would understand?
   Turn up and try to enjoy yourself?
   Turn up to ask if he minds if you go home early?

3. Which statement is true for you?
   I accept every invitation I get.
   I am choosy about invitations and accept only if I think that I'll have good time.
   I only accept invitations from old friends or family.

4. A guest who came for two days has stayed for ten, and you are longing for him to go. Would you
   Ask him to go directly
   Invent another guest, or work to be done, as a pretext for getting rid of him.
   Act  a bit frosty and hope that he'd take the hint.

5. How long do you usually keep your friends?
   Years mostly
   It varies a lot if you have something in common, it can be for years.
   Not long as a rule , you keep moving on.

6. An old acquaintance, who can be relied on to drink all your liquor without ever replacing it, is dropping over. This time you are determined not to let him get away with it again. Would you.
   Hide the bottles?
   Say , "Fine,  how about bringing a bottle?"
   Tell him you are not going to be home?

7. A friend tells you of a highly interesting personal problem. Would you
   Long to tell someone else but try to resist?
   Treat it as confidential and not even consider passing it on?
   Call up someone else to discuss it as soon as the first friend had left?

8. When you have a problem, do you
   Usually feel able to cope by yourself?
   Turn to friends you can rely on?
   Only turn to your friends if it is really bad?

9. Have you considered joining a dating service, marriage bureau or any kind of club providing introductions to other people?
   No, your pride could not take it
   No, you have never been lonely enough.
   Yes, it seems a good idea.

10. If you were asked to sing or join some game at a party, would you
    Make an excuse to get out of it?
    Join in with relish?
    Simply refuse outright?

11. When you feel anxious or depressed , do you
    
    Find that you cannot help being irritable with others around you?
    Tell your friends that you feel lousy?
    Manage to cover up?

12. When a group of friends plays a practical joke on you, do you
    Join the laughter?
    Feel angry and show it?
    Possibly either a or b, depending on the mood and the circumstances.

13. Your new boss (or your husband's), a rather aloof man, invites you to dinner at his place. Would you
    Go feeling nervous and timid?
    Go determined to make a good impression?
    Go expecting to have a good time?

14. When your friends have problems, do you find
    That they come to you for help?
    That only those close  to you come for help?
    That they do not tend to bother you for help?
    

15. Last time you had friends over to your place, was it
    Because you find them entertaining and interesting to be with?
    Because they like you?
    Because you thought you had to?

16. An old friend is going out with a new man and asks your opinion of her dress. You think she's made a big mistake. Would you.
    Tell her straight?
    Say "You are fine" in an unenthusiastic way?
    Suggest a constructive change?

17. How do you usually make friends?
    Through people you already know?
    From all kinds of encounters?
    Only after a long time and some difficulty?

18. When you  are  with someone you dislike, do you 
    Manage to be friendly and polite?
    Just about manage to be polite?
    Show coldness or dislike, unless there is a pressing reason for concealment?

19. Do you welcome people to your place ?
    Only when you have made a specific arrangement?
    Any time they want to come?
    Only when you feel  the need for company?

20. Which of these qualities do you think are most important in a friend?
    The ability to make you feel happy.
    Reliability.
    Interest in you.

21. Which statement is true for you?
    I can usually make people laugh.
    I usually make people think.
    people seem to be comfortable with me.

22. How often do you get in touch with friends who live a long way off ?
    Once a year.
    Whenever they get in touch with you.
    Quite often-whenever you feel like it.

23. Which statement is true for you?
    I usually wait for friends to call me before seeing them.
    If I want to see my friends I call them and don't worry about whether it is my turn or not.
    I do not usually take the initiative in contacting friends unless i have a particular reason to do so.

24. Which is true for you?
    I like to praise my friends as much as possible.
    I believe in honesty, so I sometimes have to make negative comments to my friends.
    I do not really either flatter or criticize my friends.

25. Do you find?
    That generally you can get on with almost anyone?.
    That sometimes you would like to get on with someone who is unresponsive to you.
    that you only get on well with people who share your interests.

26. Which would you prefer to be?
    An interesting person who knows a lot about many varied things.
    A person who makes life fun.
    A warm and sympathetic person.

27. Would you prefer to spend an evening?
    Giving a dinner party.
    Going to someone else's party.
    reading a good book.

28. Which statement is true for you?
    I always put my family before my social life.
    My family is my social life.
    My friends are as important , sometimes as my close family.

29. Which statement is true for you (ANSWER THIS QUESTION AS HONESTLY AS YOU CAN)?
    I am tactful person in general.
    I seem to find myself saying the wrong thing rather a lot of the time.
    I occasionally upset people when they misunderstand what I say.

30. How do you feel about others depending on you?
    Fine , I like to be the kind of person who can be dependable.
    A bit wary, I would prefer to keep clear of some responsibilities.
    Up to a point I do not mind , but I like a certain amount of independence in my friends.

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